MY GRANDMA: CONSTANCE "Connie" Vale-Edwards: 

 February 25th 1922 - September (?) 1993

Connie was unborn in 1921. Connie was not UNBORN from 1922 - 1993. She was UNBORN before Feb 25th 1922, and she became UNBORN again in 1993

Connie is not dead; Connie exists in CONSCIOUSNESS. From my perspective she currently resides in the MYSTERY region of CONSCIOUSNESS, that is, outside of space and time, outside of our ordinary experiences. In the fullness of time she will return from the MYSTERY region of CONSCIOUSNESS to live, once again, within the mundane experiences of ordinary space-time. Connie lives now only in Metaphysical Experiences.

It’s like a DVD disk and a DVD Player:

Before February 25th 1922 Connie only existed as "unplayed music on DVD". Between 1922 and 1993 Connie existed as " live music" playing in the DVD Player. The Sweet Music that is Connie will be played again and again in the fullness of time.

The Theme of "Connie's Song" played melodiously throughout seven decades. It’s 2015 now. The theme of "Connie's Song" exists; but it is not being played at this moment. At this moment it exists as a song-meme sitting in a file on cloud-99. The "Connie's Song" meme will play many times over in unique expressions within the fullness of time and in a cherished place that is Positively Heavenly!.

The truth is that the "Connie's Song" meme cannot be created or destroyed. The promise is that our beloved Connie  will be returned to us, at long last,  from Consciousness's Mystery Region to Consciousness's Space-time Region. The truth is that Connie and we will sing her memes and dance her themes again in a better place in some wonderful future time.

The essence of Connie's Song lives on! Connie lives renewed in rich expressions that are her sons, daughters, grandchildren and great grands. Her great grandchildren will continue to pass on her wisdom to their own sons and daughters. And they in turn will express the cultured pearls of “Connie Song Family Jewels” to untold generations of descendants.